How to Calm Your Anxiety
wangzf / 2024-03-23
- 演讲者:Wendy Suzuki
- 演讲者身份:神经科学家(Neuroscientist)
- 演讲主题:What if you could transform your anxiety into something you can actually use during your work day? Wendy Suzuki shares two evidence-based activities – breathing and movement – that can soothe your nervous system and fuel creativity and connection.
You know when you get that ambiguous email from your boss and you start to feel sweaty palms and that empty, freaked out sensation in your stomach? Welcom back, anxiety. Most of us think of anxiety as a bad thing, something to be avoided at all costs. But what if it weren’t? What if you could take all of that energy racing around your brain and your body and transform it into something helpful?
Global anxiety levels, both the clinical kind and what I call the everyday kind, have increased tremendously in recent years. And many of us are noticing this at work. We might think of anxiety as something that we’d rather just leave on the side of the road if we could. But anxiety is an important tool that arose during our evolution that we use to avoid danger. It’s essential for our survival. So how come we don’t even feel vaguely protected by it? It’s because the volume of your individual and collective anxiety levels has been turned way up too high, and too much of even a potentially good thing like anxiety is bad. So I would like to share two powerful, science-based tools for turning down the volume on our anxiety and helping us get anxiety back to its helpful protective state. And both of these tools begin by connecting with our bodies.
Tool number one is breath work. It’s just simple, deep breathing. Slowly inhale and exhale. This can be one of the most immediate ways to calm anxiety, because deep breath directly activates that natural de-stressing part of our nervous systems called the parasympathetic nervous system. I recommend a boxed breathing approach, which is: inhale deeply on four counts, hold at the top for four counts, exhale deeply on four counts and hold at the bottom for four counts. Yor can even do this in the middle of any anxiety-provoking conversation and no one will even know. Lots of people, from ancient monks to modern meditators, have figured this tool out and use it all the time.
Tool number two: moving your body. This one also has immediate positive effects on your mood state, but for a different reason. Every time you move your body, you’re releasing a whole bunch of beneficial neurochemicals in your brain. These neurochemicals include dopamine, serotonin, noradrenaline and endorphins, mood and reward-boosting neurochemicals that work to both increase positive mood states and decrease negative ones. I like to say that every single time you move your body, it’s like giving yourself a wonderful bubble bath of neurochemicals for your brain.
So When your boss’s email comes in and your heart starts to race, what exactly can you do? If you’re in an office, try taking a short walk around the block or even to the supply closet for some sticky notes. If you’re working from home, put on two of your favorite songs and dance around the living room like no one is watching. Studies have shown that all it takes is ten minutes of walking to get those mood-boosting effects. But be creative with your movement session. Whether that’s a quick session of power vacuuming a la Mrs. Doubtfire when you’re stressed about a deadline or doing a set of jumping jacks or getting off the elevator one floor early to do a power walk up that last flight of stairs before on important meeting. All of these possibilities will all help your anxiety levels come down.
In fact, I tested this effect on my own NYU students. First, I had them take an anxiety assessment before leading them in a movement session that included movement from kickbox and dance and yoga and martial arts together with positive spoken affirmations. Then I had them retake that same anxiety assessment again. What happened? After our movement session, their anxiety scores had decrease to normal levels. Now that’s powerful, real-world example that you can use in your life today. So make sure to incorporate these bursts of activity in your day, and try one out next time you’re feeling stress. It can really make your anxiety feel less all-consuming.
You’ll be able to communicate with others. You might seek out advice from a trusted colleague when that difficult issue arises. Or you might even have a conversation with your boss about how to prioritize projects. Because you’re no longer in fight-or-fight mode, asking for that support won’t feel nearly as threatening. And one of the best gifts of aproaching your anxiety in this way is that you will be able to notice those telltale signs of anxiety in everyone else around you, especially those forms of anxiety you’re most familiar with. And what will that do? That will allow you to give that person a smile or a kind word to help them through that moment. In other words, your own form of anxiety can boost your personal super power of empathy. And I can’t think of anything we need in this world today more than higher levels of empathy for one another.
You take-home in all of this? If you breathe, move and take note of what your anxiety is signaling, you’ll feel more fulfilled, more creative, more connected and less stressed overall. And that’s my wish for every one of us.